5 Signs a Relationship Isn’t Going to Last (That Most People Don’t Realize)


It is quite easy to fall in love. The beginning of a relationship is always nice and positive, however, when more time passes, you get to know more things about your partner and can decide whether your relationship will last or not.

Thus, below is a list of 5 most important signs which show that your relationship won’t work but people usually don’t even realize it.

  1. You don’t talk about your future together. If you have been together for quite some time now and you don’t have any plans of how your future will look like, you should be worried. If you have been dating for 2 or more years and your partner still doesn’t want to talk about marriage and having a family and you want all those things, you should talk about it with him. If you notice that he doesn’t feel comfortable talking about creating a family, it is better to break up as your visions of what your future should look like are completely different.
  2. You are in a relationship just for the passion. Physical connection is one of the most important elements in romantic relationships. However, for your relationship to grow you have to be attracted to each other not only physically, but also mentally and emotionally. If you fail to do so, it is better to break up as relationships can’t survive on simply physical attractiveness.
  3. You can’t be open and honest with each other. People who are in a relationship should communicate openly and honestly in order to be intimate with each other. But if you feel that you can’t be yourself around your partner, it means that you don’t trust him. If you constantly feel uncomfortable when you spend time together or you have to hide so many details from your life because you think that your partner won’t approve them, your relationship doesn’t have any strong foundation and will not last long.
  4. You don’t fight with each other but you also don’t communicate. People always get mislead by the fact that they don’t fight, therefore, they are in a positive relationship. However, what they don’t understand is that people fight not because they are angry at each other but because they want to reach a compromise. If you never fight, it is a sign that you don’t care about your relationship and you keep all your conflicts and problems unresolved.
  5. You don’t like your partner’s friends. People are attracted to those who have similar hobbies or their characteristic traits are alike. If you don’t like your partner’s friends, it is a sign that your relationship won’t last because you are very likely to know more things about your partner which you won’t like either.


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