Have you ever been that girl who a man dated for a long time, then broke up with her and married the next girl he got into a relationship with? Nothing can make you feel more hopeless than seeing how a man who you loved started dating another girl and proposed to her after a short period of time.
Such actions are quite shocking. You start to question why you were not good enough for him and why he married someone who he didn’t know that well while you were dating for a long time and he never put a ring on you.
Below are mentioned the main reasons why men date a woman for a long time and still don’t marry her.
- There is no such thing as the right partners. The important thing is to be with a man at the right time. It is true that men get married not when they meet the right partner but when they feel ready for marriage and it doesn’t depend on who they are dating at that time. Another thing which pushes men to get married is when a woman who they liked a lot but didn’t have the courage to ask her the most important question marries another guy, they want to get married right away, too. It has also been scientifically proven that men want to get married between the ages of 28 to 32. After that, the chances that they will propose to someone are very low.
- You can’t create a family based on physical attraction only. It takes much more than that. Studies have proven that those couples where women look better than men are happier than when men appear better than women. However, when men look for a woman they want to marry, their appearance is the last thing on their list. What they look for are personal qualities. She doesn’t have to be the most beautiful girl on this planet – it is enough for her to be presentable to go out in public.
- The decision to get married can be affected by other people’s opinions. It doesn’t matter how independent a man is, his decision to marry someone can be affected by those who are important to him. Men especially pay attention to opinions of their friends and that’s why it is important to leave a good impression for them because if they don’t approve of you at the beginning of your relationship, you are very likely not going to end up with this man.
- Men are sure that women are satisfied just the way it is. If a woman never tells a man that she wants to get married, he is very likely not to talk about this question at all. Even if she says that it is ok to live just how they live right now, a man will never expect that it is not true as he believes what he hears. He can’t read your mind. Therefore, if you want to get married, you should show him some signs which won’t scare him but make him think about it.